Remembering a King

REPOST: This was originally posted January 18, 2010. I thought it only fitting to share again this year which is becoming an annual repost. Happy Birthday Dr. King!

I almost grew up in Atlanta. Even though I’m glad I didn’t because I have such fond memories of California, I occasionally wonder what it would have been like for me growing up as a young black girl in a city rich with Black history. When I think Atlanta, it translates to everything Black history to me. Whenever I perused through a JET or Ebony Magazine, it appeared that every page contained just one more exciting event that was happening in Atlanta.

Five historically Black colleges which include Clark Atlanta University (formerly Clark College and Atlanta University), Interdenominational Theological Center (ITC), Morehouse College, Morris Brown College, and Spelman College take residency in Atlanta. I have relatives that attended and graduated from almost every one of those schools. Yes, even I owe some of my intellect to the AU Center. Can you guess which school I attended? I’m sure you know which school Martin Luther King, Jr. attended.

Whether one was a member of Ebenezer Baptist Church where Dr. King and his father served as co-pastors or strolled down Auburn Avenue where many prominent black-owned businesses got their starts and prospered, history was being made.

People, ordinary people like you and me, were a part of it all and Martin Luther King, Jr.’s legacy was in its infancy.

Last summer, the children and I took a road trip, and somewhere along the way we had the opportunity to visit the The King Center in Atlanta, Georgia.

Surprisingly, I had never visited the King Center, so we were able to take in the experience together for the first time.

It’s funny how we take so many things for granted when we live in and around them.

When I lived in Atlanta, I saw sights of the center on television often and on many occasions had driven by King’s birth home on Auburn Avenue, but had never taken the time to stop by and take a look around.

The children and I have talked a bit about race relations.

They have an understanding about slavery and racism, but don’t understand the justification behind either one.

We have also had conversations about the mistreatment Black people experienced in the past and how Martin Luther King, Jr. diligently worked to end segregation and to earn equal civil rights for all people.

They also learned how King promoted the spirit of God through his encouragement of non-violence and peace in his efforts for equality.

I’m hoping they will incorporate the same behavior in their daily interaction with each other. I too can dream.

Despite their understanding, there is still much curiosity and many questions now and I’m sure questions to follow.

How does one explain the true essence of a man who self-sacrificed, listened to, and followed the word of God despite the true nature of his opponents who called King their enemy? He was a man and a servant who endured injustices derived from hate, jealousy, and bigotry just to name a few.

He had hope and a dream for those people who walked with him.

Although he would never know them, he also thought about those who would later follow in his footsteps.

He hoped they too would dream just as big if not bigger than he had and rightly have a belief their dreams could also come true.

He believed this so strongly that even the constant threats of death didn’t deter him.

Unfortunately, it was pure hate, and not the love he preached that eventually took him from us.

To this day, the painful reminder of his death is still so strong for many and a new lesson for others as we continue to share his life and his impact on history with our children.

Despite the loss, we should continue to be inspired by his dream – inspired enough to make our own, humbled by his servitude – humbled enough to take our eyes off of ourselves for a moment and help another, and impassioned to continue his efforts of breaking the chains of hatred and embracing each other in arms of love.

We wish you a Happy Birthday Dr. King and we thank you. I remember you as well as my children and we will never forget you even though we never got to meet you.

How has the legacy of Martin Luther King, Jr. affected you?

Menu Planning: A New Concept for the New Year

Regardless of how I feel about menu planning…

  1. It takes too much time to do.
  2. I know I’m going to change my mind about what I want to eat before the month is over.
  3. I’m sure it saves money, but back to #1.
  4. I work better under pressure.

I must face the facts…

  1. Once you get started and have menus in place, it gets a lot easier and grocery shopping is a breeze.
  2. I decided that planning one month at a time was too intense for me because I do change my mind a lot. So I have been planning one week at a time and if I decide to change my mind, I make the changes for the upcoming week. It gives me something to look forward to.
  3. We save money and waste less food when I plan our weekly meals.
  4. Despite what laziness, procrastination, and poor planning may try to make me believe, I really don’t like “flying by the seat of my pants” when it comes to meals. Plus, if I can go with hearing “Mom, what’s for dinner?” and not break out into a cold sweat, then I’ve had a really good day.

Menu planning is not a resolution (lofty ideas – I don’t make those), but rather it is one of my many goals (I have a plan and I will implement it) for the New Year.

Some other things I’ve noticed is that we eat healthier when I plan. I actually do enjoy cooking, but not having a plan in place has made cooking an unpleasant chore. Over the past two months, I have gained five pounds (a lot for me), my children have eaten more cold cereal for breakfast and potato chips during lunch than I care to admit to*, and I have not been eating as healthy as I used to. Did you know that one box of Nabisco Nilla Wafers can be consumed in one night while using a computer? I wouldn’t advise you trying it, but now you could have a winning answer on Jeopardy one day.

If you would like to see What’s on the Menu for us this week, then take a look.

*I have nothing against weight gain, cold cereal, or potato/tortilla chips. I just don’t like it on my belly when I’m not pregnant…Kashi brand and Wheaties cereals are winners here…and On the Border and Kirkland (Costco) brands of tortilla chips are the best.

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